Just in case...

Sometimes it becomes necessary to end a relationship with an inmate pen pal. This could be because the inmate becomes harassing, sending you excessive mail when you've asked him or her to stop, starts making threats either directly or indirectly or seeks romantic involvement after you've already declined...

How to End Your Pen Pal Relationship with an Inmate

A long time ago, I knew a man who went to prison. He was the husband of a business associate of my father. While there, he gave my address to another inmate so that man could write to me. I couldn't believe it and I was furious! Had anything come of it, I would have needed this advice.

Be prepared.