Dear Abby

My husband is a liar and a cheat. He has cheated on me from the beginning and when I confront him, he denies everything. What's worse, everyone knows he cheats on me. It is so humiliating.

Also, since he lost his job six years ago, he hasn't even looked for a new one. All he does all day is smoke cigars and cruise around with his buddies while I have to work to pay the bills. Since our daughter went away to college he doesn't even pretend to like me. He doesn't even defend my reputation when people suggest I may be a lesbian.

What should I do?

- Clueless

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Dear Clueless,

Grow up and dump him. Good grief, woman. You don't need him anymore! You're a United States Senator running for President of the United States. Act like one!

- Abby